home | past selections | discussions | participating stores

introduction | about the author | discussion questions

What Matters Most
Nicole Bokat

Introduction

"A scrumptiously witty, suspensefully woven story full of sharply drawn characters calamities, and a surprising measure of hope." — Leah Cohen

Georgia Merkin — a magazine writer and self-sufficient divorcée with a young son — always adored her father, who was her buffer against her cold, fiercely ambitious mother, Dr. Estelle Merkin. When he dies of cancer, secret histories wash up in sorrow's wake — and Georgie must finally find the courage to confront her mother and their years of detachment and misunderstanding. And as her world seems to collapse around her, Georgie may just rediscover an unexpected love and the depth of the roots that define her.

About the Author

Nicole Bokat is the author of Redeeming Eve and The Novels of Margaret Drabble. She has taught at NYU, the New School, and Hunter College, and has written for several national publications.

Discussion Questions

  • The death of her father is the catalyst for so much change in this novel. In what ways does losing Adam propel Georgie to reevaluate her life and family? In what ways does she mature and come into her own after this experience?

  • Estelle is originally an unlikable character, especially as seen through Georgie's point of view. How did the switch to Estelle's perspective help you understand her better or appreciate her life circumstances more?

  • Georgie considers her role as Jesse's mother the greatest joy of her life. Yet she can't follow through with her pregnancy after her divorce from Lucas. What did you think of her decision to have an abortion? Did it bother you that she never shared the knowledge of her pregnancy with her ex-husband?

  • How did the fact of Daniel Kaplan's existence shape your opinion of Estelle? Did you feel she should have shared this secret with Georgie sooner?

  • Georgie struggles with her own ambitions and identify in the world. She comes from two successful parents and a mother who was somewhat of a trailblazer in her time. Is Georgie really just a "light weight," as she calls herself or are other factors impinging on her dreams of writing more substantial articles and her true-love, poetry? On the other hand, she has carved out a good career for herself as a freelance journalist. Is her self-perception preventing her from appreciating her own significant achievements?