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Discussion Questions
1. Mothers are often the central figures in Italian families, and this novel features two pivotal mother-child relationships: Concetta-Vito and Chiara-Maddalena. What influence does each mother have on her child?
2. The book has been called a love story, but each character seems to have a different idea about love and marriage. How do those ideas affect their lives, especially the women?
3. At the beginning of the novel, Maddalena predicts that Vito "won't grow up" (p. 58), and Vito himself thinks that all he has to offer Maddalena is his humor. No oneincluding his best friend and his mothersees him as a "catch." But what positive qualities does Vito display in these early scenes, and how do they eventually lead not only Maddalena but Carolina to fall in love with him?
4. The novel is divided into six sections, each titled with a mode of transportation: the bike, the tank, the carriage, the procession, the car, and the boat. Discuss the theme of transportation in the book, especially as it relates to the idea of campanilismothe Italian philosophy that warns you never to move so far away from home that you can't hear the church bells ringing.
5. The theme of betrayal runs throughout A Kiss from Maddalenaespecially at the endbut who is betraying whom?
6. "That doesn't sound like love to me," Maddalena says (p. 274), when Chiara tells her of their plans to marry her off to Antonio Grasso. How do you reconcile Maddalena's parents' apparent cruelty with their devotion to her?
7. "Who loves you makes you cry; who doesn't, makes you laugh," Chiara tells Maddalena (p. 274). What does this traditional Italian expression meanboth in the context of the characters and in life?
8. Late in the novel (p. 314), Maddalena admits to feeling that she has little power, and that she "played such a small part in her own life." Do you agree with her statement? What is the primary force acting upon her to make her feel so powerless?
9. Carolina is arguably the most controversial character. How do you feel about her? Discuss her decisions in regard to herself and Maddalena, especially after the arrival of Antonio Grasso.
10. Answer the narrator's question at the end of the novel: "Was [Maddalena] so different from any other bride? If you were a girl from Santa Cecilia, standing at this moment in the church beside a boy you'd known for twenty years, someone maybe who'd gone off to war and come back safely, would you know any better than Maddalena Piccinelli what waited for you in his house? Doesn't every wife learn a new language and forget little by little the one she spoke when she was young?" (p. 333). How do Maddalena's decisions at the end of the book affect your sympathy for her?
11. How does the town of Santa Cecilia change from the beginning of the book (May 1943) to the end of the book (October 1946)?
12. If you were going to write a sequel to this book, what would you want to see happen to the charactersboth in Italy and in the United States?
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